Scott desires that Jen could merely recognize him for whom he or she is, and obtain down his case. He does not want to participate in her plan for his life, which feels emasculating and controlling to him.

Scott desires that Jen could merely recognize him for whom he or she is, and obtain down his case. He does not want to participate in her plan for his life, which feels emasculating and controlling to him. And this leaves the security on the relationship on the line...